I was having extreme troubles in my personal life with a relationship that was failing. I was terribly depressed. My dad came to me just before I woke up. And I remember it to this day. He just came to me and hugged me. It was so incredibly real. I felt the love gush from him to me while he was holding me. When I woke up, I felt incredibly rested. I felt energized. I felt extreme warmth and love. It made me very happy. Shortly thereafter, I almost died.
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He came to me then and stopped me from going into the light. Had a similar dream about my nephew who passed in a auto accident 5 yrs ago, He was so loved by all. Shortly after he crossed over I had a dream of him standing to the top of my driveway, I ran up to him so shocked to see him , he was standing there is nice bright clothing with a very care-free pleasant demeanor , he never spoke just smile, it felt so real.
When I awaken I also felt so energized and great, my cousin explained to me that he had a similar dream of my nephew and he felt the same way. His sister in law just recently passed at the age of 30, her funeral is today and I had a dream of my nephew once again last that was so real and I felt so refreshed after.
The only time I feel like this is when I meet him in my dreams. It seems like he makes his presence when I really need it. I miss him so. Blair, last night my dogs were looking at things in the air and one of them was barking. My Blue passed away August and has been around a bit. In the evening I was visited by someone which was holding my hand; I could feel the fingers and asked for them to spell on my palm who it is. They did not, I just rubbed their fingers and then they left. I thanked my guide and hope I can figure it out. I dream of my mom and dad all the time.
We are always in the house I grew up in always. Sometimes my older brother will be there. He is deceased. I always have a safe calm feeling when I wake up. We were very. Lise in real life and I still have my parents ashes at home with me. Thank you Blair for confirming what I thought that my parents were really there. Thanks Blair, even though I have read your books a couple of times, I love to read them and your articles again and again. What am I doing wrong?
Lost the love of my life of 48 years in dec I cry at every little thing i think of will he ever let me know he is ok it sure would help ease the pain I feel. The years my oldest son age then, 28 and my husband of almost 30 years were both diagnosed with cancer within months of each other.
That year, October, I believe is when I met a man who would become a great friend and who would eventually become my husband, James. Suddenly my deceased husband appeared between us. He was vivid, full bodied and actually wearing a shirt which I still had in the closet. He was known for his large charming smile and there he was, smiling at me.
He walked towards me and with a felt swoosh through me.. He had felt it!! The peace I felt in that dream, and as I awakened was obvious to me. And actually held onto that particular shirt he was wearing in the dream for a long time. James and I married in September, Living life as it is handed to us and happy! I remember the peace I was provided through that experience as well.
I had a strange dream about my dad. He told me he was at the Turkey farm. I had know idea what he meant by that. Later that morning I got the call he had passed away. A few days later my sibling were going through his stuff and found a stack of hats he had. In the middle of these hats was a hat that said Burkel Turkey Farm!
They were so shocked. They sent me a picture of it lol. We have no idea where that hat came from! Thanks Blair, I hope to meet you some day , I always enjoy your messages! I lost my I have not been able to forgive myself, I kept her ashes lit a candle several times in her memory, but know she is gone it hurts every day. I did adopt a stray 6 months ago and he is a hyper crazy dog but I am working with him none the less. Last week I had what felt like a conscious dream of Cocoa pulling on her leash next to my scotty Kyra, and thought she is no longer here I must be dreaming.
I then woke up and fell asleep again and Cocoa was there again, I pulled her over, picked her up and kissed her crying all the time I miss you, I miss you so much. I could feel her body first time in a dream I was ever aware of something having form and substance I know she was there. I pray she is at peace and happy I adopted her at the age of 2 from an abusive owner, when I was ill I made one mistake that caused her death.
Vicki I think it is very possible that your little dog had a stroke or heart attack at her age and fell into the pool. You gave her a wonderful life and she was obviously grateful. Hello Blair, I wanted to let you know that I read all your emails. Sincerely, Terri. I bought tickets to go see you in Sacramento in January for my birthday. I had a great time and brought my daughter too. After your event I went upstairs to sleep and was woken up in the midal of the night and was in the arms of someone I cloud not see but was engulfed and white light and I felt so great.
Then he said look into my eyes several times , over and over. They were very light blue. Then as I was waking up I seen you. Did this happen? Because I was asking for healing light too when you were helping someone else toothat night at the event. It was a wonderful experience. I would certainly love to see my son more often.
Last week my husband was in my dream one night and during the course of the night, I woke up several times. I would go back into the same dream and he would be right there. He kept trying to find some money I had hidden and was very animate about it. Upon awakening, I knew he was trying to tell me something about a situation having to do with money, but I really had no clue. I am sure that my husband was trying to tell me to open them up and take care of the problem with my employer.
It really is more in depth, but I am giving you the shorter version. Yes, they visit us!!! I know this was what my husband wanted me to get to the bottom of. Thank you Blair for teaching me all i do know about spirit today! I have had many visitation dreams from my mother, father, and once with my grandmother. My question is this…in my last visitation dream with my mother I remember feeling so happy to see her again.
We hugged and I could smell her hair and I distinctly remembered how short she was and chuckled about how I had to lean down to hug her. During the visit though my Mom was crying. I knew, without her saying it, that she was crying because she missed me. I told her I loved her and not to worry and we would be together again someday. Why do you think this happened? From her perspective now surely she knows how this works. This was definitely a visitation. Thank you for any input. All of a sudden I was at the top of the stairs and he hugged me and said he loved me and also said remember to always read the fine print.
Which to this day I am not sure what that meant but I always do pay attention to fine print now more than ever. He also had a bright light around him like a glow and I really to this day only remember the top part of him like from the waist up. So what do you think of this, could this be him communicating with me. I also remember him reluctantly telling me that about a year or so before he passed he would have visits from my grandmother who passed several years ago.
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At first he thought he was dreaming but he said he was awake and she would come to him and communicate to him that everything will be fine and he will be very busy when he crosses over. She was giving him messages and even something about a picture when my mom was little that she explained to him, and he was trying to find it. I think it was to confirm it was her. He said like it was telepathy. So do you think my dream was him talking to me and what do you think of his visits from my grandmother which he said helped him when his cancer was winning, he passed about 2 years after her first visit and she visited him right up to the end.
My sister visited me in the dream state so I know she is alright. My father did the same many years ago when he passed.
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During the day, wide awake my mother slapped me in the back of the head as she would when she was here! Know one else was around and I remember her slap! What kind of visitation is that? LOL Thank you Blair. People do not think I am so crazy any more. Hi Blair This is so weird that this email came to me about this subject. This past Sunday I had one of those visitation dreams. I could feel every emotion they were sending me. They were guiding me. I have always had these dreams growing up some great some not so good.
I have had deceased loved ones come to me and tell me they are ok and show me were they reside waiting for there loved ones, is that weird??? Even from my husbands side of the family. I try to explain to my family but I know they look at me strange. God has always been in my life and I live by this path, if not I feel I would not be here. He has given me strength. Thanks for your gift it makes a lot of difference for us. Gives peace. My uncle Hartley was in the hospital having surgery and his heart kept stopping and when they got his heart started again he showed me that he was in the hospital so in the morning I called my aunt DeeDee.
She told me what happened. He was my favourite Uncle. He lived with us when I was younger. When he was gone he still shows me signs when he is around me. My Dad visits me quite often and he is always surrounded by a bright white light, so bright you need sunglasses…LOL! One time he even had my deceased cat on his lap that passed away 2 weeks before he did. My cat was white and so was the cat on my Dads lap. He gave me a message to give to my Sister. How cool is that! Hi Blair. That was so good to read and confirm the visitation of loved ones.
I lost my loving boyfriend 19 years ago. I was When my son turned one in My loved one started visting me when I was sleeping. In my loved ones visit he would hold me tight and make me feel loved. The love by him hugging me felt so pure it was amazing. He would talk often and say he loved me. Once he sang a wee tune and said I will always love you. But I felt strong because I could feel him with me. I feel like he had a connection with my daughter as she was so sick but she was very strong.
In December my future husband and I talked about getting married when my daughter was better and no more hospital visits. I had what was to be my 2nd last visit from him. He was on a big dirt hill,we both were,in the middle of nowhere. He had a cellphone and wanted to call a female to come and get him.
Our date was set for the wedding and one last visit from my loved one. I watched him as he came out of a house with a tuxedo on. He smiled and he walked off into the distance. I think he wore the tux maybe as asign or my wedding. He has not been back,I was sad for awhile but then I realised its ok because He had to let me go and I had to let him go. I feelgood now because I know he will always be with me.
This is not a visitation. Can you explain for me what you mean by just before or just after. Sorry confused. Thank you.
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You are awesome, thanks for sharing. I was very sick a one time did not know yet what was wrong I thought it was my time I was loosing a lot of weight my loved one came to me and just said to me you are not coming here it is not your time. I often have dreams of passed over loved ones. Can spirits attach. I do believe I am an open door for them.
But I would love to to have a visit from my mom or sister or my brother. I could really use it right about now. This confirmation of loved ones visits was very helpful. Thank you! I had a dream last night and my girlfriend came through I knew it was a visit, not a dream. I havnt had a dream connection with her yet anyway. Thanks for this clarification Blair. Now that I think of it, I have had both kinds. The real and the just a dream. Nice to know the difference. My brother passed away an the very Next nite I saw him around 4 am he was on a motorcycle looking like he was around 19 Ana when he passes he was But he was dressed in a white shirt black jeans an he looked so happy he waved bye to me an I work crying but I saw it as a sign to me that by big brother was fine.
An a few days later I had some car problems an some wonderful ppl helped me I felt my brother again assembling these wonderful ppl to get me home safe. An other things have happened I found a picture of him an my Mom an I never knew it existed , an one of him an I it was great an I knew he wanted me to have these pics.. It was the second summer since my mom had passed.. I was at my trailer all alone and that day had been missing her terribly..
I cried and reminisced and told her how much I missed her.. I got up and looked outside and at my watch.. What the heck?.. I knew she had visited me.. Wow, amazing, The night before my mum passed away, i thought i was dreaming of being beside her in her room, as My Dad came an stood in the door way of her room.
Dad has been gone 12 Years now. I immediately felt calm, that my Dad was there to guide mum. I am so grateful for his presence to me. Hi Blair, my daughter and I saw you in Peterborough Ontario last year. At the time I thought that this was very stupid so I changed the channel and this commercial started again. Finally I realized that this was my Richard and it made me smile cause I knew he was connecting with me.
It stopped playing as soon as I acknowledged that it was him. Thought I would add another dream.. I was planning a trip to visit my bestie in BC with the intent of travelling to Vancouver Island to a small town where 25 years before.. I had lost my fiancee who tragically drowned during a rafting incident..
I had always wanted to go back and throw a red rose into the river there for him.. This was about February.. I could see a yellow wall behind the love seat.. I told my friend about it.. I was repeatedly drawn and attracted to a particular one.. I tried to book a suite that I wanted but was told it was unavailable at that time but they had another that was more expensive but that I could have for the same price..
I took it.. I wake up with a song in my head.. I check the lyrics on YouTube and start playing the song.. I said to the owner.. He confirmed it.. And I saw a picture of it before he painted.. The owners were also instrumental in helping me to locate the spot on the river where he drowned.. I got to do my tribute on the river in his memory as I had wanted to for 25 years.
Just read your Visitation Dreams article. It makes so much sense and gives me new insight into the difference between the types of dreams. My late husband does connect with me in dreams. For many years my grandmother and mother have come through to me and I easily recognize signs they send me. During the worst of my grief over the loss of my husband I was blocked from allowing him to come through. Thanks for your insights and advice.
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I lost my twin sister. I miss her so much. Before she passed away we made a pact to give the other one a sign. I need to know she is OK. I am going to come to your meeting in Lake Havasu on the 20th of March. Our birthday is March 6th. Thank you for all your information. Thank you again! Hi Blair hope all is well. I have read your books. I want to thank you I just have a question that maybe one day you can answer it for me.
I use to have a lot of nightmares growing up so I was told dream catchers would take them away so I am now in my 60s and I still hang them and I am wondering if this would stop my family from visiting me in my dreams. I wanted to know if my dreams are and you say they are. That makes me fell good, when I woke up from surgery I only wanted to know where my father was, because I was just talking to him.
Everyone thought I was nuts and it was the drugs they gave me. I said no he was right here. Unfortunatly he has been gone 6 years. Now I feel he was with me and I was really talking to him and I am not crazy. Is that right? I can remember everything and we were at a floating table. My husband was so confused and actually walked out of the room a few mins because he thought I was loosing it. About a week ago, my mom started appearing in my dreams. She passed almost 14 years ago. I kept asking if she could hear me, but no answer.
When I woke up, I felt as though I was still with her. You feel to this person is so strong.. I dream of this man James.. I had a very vivid dream three nights ago, my Greg visited me, we chatted in the dream, I knew it was a visit thanks to your book it was lovely. Hi Blair, I was at your show in St. Petersburg last night. It was awesome by the way! I, like many hoped by a personal reading as I lost my mom back in April five months after losing our son being 5 months pregnant. It was a devastating time for me. I know she connected with me when I found out I had breast cancer last November while also dealing with Lyme disease for the past 5 years.
Lights kept coming on in my house for no apparent reason. When I asked her to turn the light off on the china cabinet light so that I would know if I was choosing the correct treatment, the light turned off. It was amazing! Then last night after your show, I had a visitation dream where she was laughing at me we always goofed around together…she was a comedian then she kissed me. So incredibly real. Thank you SO much for your show. It means so much to me and so many others. I have had I think a few visitations from my husband. Then people think I lied to them about him dying.
And he tells me I told you I would never leave you. I have felt his hugs, his kisses, and wjen I open my eyes I expect him to be there. Dear Mr Robertson, Do you perform private readings? If so, I will travel to your location for the reading. I just recently lost my husband. I know that all you have written is absolutely true. I have many sleep connections. I have many random dreams. I know the difference. I vaguely remember the random dreams. The sleep Connections stay with me all day.
Way to. Both my mom and dad have visited me in dreams.
My mom came to tell me that our dog Abbey was with her and she wanted me to know. After my dad passed, he came to me in a dream. He came to the door of my home and I was so happy to see him and hugged him. Then I was so suprised, realizing that he could walk as he had his leg amputated later in life. He smiled and said that he was whole again and felt great! Both were such detailed dreams. One of my experiences while asleep was that I opened a door and walked into a room where there was a lady in a bed facing away from me. I knew the moment I saw her that it was my mom.
I got into the bed and snuggled up to her and put my arm around her waist. I noticed her body was younger and slimmer than before she died. Her love filled the room. This is how I knew it was her : When I was twelve years old, I would hear my dad going out the door to work in the early morning. She was a beautiful and loving mother in life and in death. I get euphoric every time I think of that time. Like you said, Blair, love never dies. Thanks for all you do. I barely even met this guy.. But I just woke up from a dream where he was in it asking of his girlfriend and telling me to make sure she was okay.
He was happy full of love and touching and playing with my hair. When I woke up I had a strong urge to contact my little brother so he could tell the girlfriend.. My question is , how do I open myself up so I can receive more in my dreams? I lost my father almost 2 years ago and I would love for him to visit me.. I feel like he has before I just can never remember the whole dream.. OMG Blair it happened to me the other night , I had just got into bed and was laying on my left side when all of a sudden I felt something get into my bed which I thought it was my american bulldog but when I turn to fuss at her she was not there and my door was still closed, so I turned back on my left side and tried to go to sleep when I felt it again , I stayed still and felt someone laying up against my back with their head on mine and felt arms ontop of my arms and giving me a big bear hug , instantly I knew it was my husband who had passed away 11 months ago and I started crying and said his name out loud then about 10 seconds he was gone!!!
I was so happy and filled with excitement I could hardly go to sleep. What a surprise 2 days before Easter. I recently moved from my house ito a condo, when I lived in my house I would occasionallly see cardinals in my telephone lines in my backyard and in the trees but never close to the house. However once I have moved a cardinal appears on my balcony and flies into the glass bedroom door, the other day he flew into the glass living room door a few times and at one point stood on the molding around the glass and looked into the living room for a few seconds and then flew to the banister of the balcony, stayed there for awhile singing then flew to a tree where he continued to sing for awhile.
I guess I want to know if this is a visitation sign from a loved one Or am I reading too much into it. I felt good after this dream. Came to me as though he was right in the room with me I heard him as clear as if he was. And then I yelled out his name and woke up and he was gone. I believe I had a visitation dream last night. I dreamed I was moving into a humongous house in Maine her state. Everywhere I turned there was another bedroom.
I was trying to decide where my Dad also deceased and in the dream and I would sleep. In the kitchen, I came upon my Aunt who has been dead nearly 30 years. In life, no one would ever describe her as beautiful. She was morbidly obese. But, in she was beautiful. But I touched her cheek and told her how beautiful she looked. She was wearing lilac colored eye makeup. It was as if an artist had painted her face.
The lilac extended beyond her eyes. It was very sparkly. It was a very pleasant dream. My sister has come to me at least 3times, that I absolutely know for sure, were her! The first time, she whispered just my name, loudly enough in my mind, that it was almost like she whispered it right into my ear.
The 2nd and 3rd times were both in sleep, the first showed me that she was on the other side, happy, healthy, full of life and love and joy, the 2nd time, was a waking dream, she put her face and hand right in front of mine and blew on her hand, towards my face, like when someone blows you a kiss. It was the year my mom passed and I had alrwady felt her physically touch my head the week she passed So I had a dream one night I was standing before famous CBS news Walter Cronkite, he was on a throne and wearing a crown.
I bowed to him. My name is Kanne. In , I dated a guy named Demeatrias. He was my very first love. My first everything. He was in the 11th grade and I was in the 10th. We attended different schools. He went to Ohio for college and came back in We got back together. By that time, I had a daughter. I was in college and taking care of my daughter. While I had class, he enjoyed spending time with her. He taught her how to walk! His cousin found me on Instagram and said he wanted to know that I was ok.
Fast forward once again to January ………he had a heart attack and died in the 3rd. I called his mom as soon as I found out. How did you know? My husband died of als 10 years ago, only We had 6 children When he passed I felt angels intensely and was calm and felt love. I dream over and over that he never died and has been living close. He is not paralyzed, yet not back to his very physically fit self. I feel guilty to have moved on to have 3 more children.
He is never mad and just wants to help me with all of the 9 children as if they were all his. But his body became a wooden six panel pine door,normal head,neck,arms, knee down with feet. I had a dream of my son and he was saying to me ma get up we have to go to the store at that time it was in the morning because I woke up and looked at the clock so I went back to sleep and my mother came to me and I told her what my son said and she said why would he want to go to the store at that time in the morning. Then I woke up at that time at 2;35 in the morning so was that just a dream.
I have been having visitation dreams.. So sad. My beautiful man passed away three months ago. I love him. The dreams are so real. Last night he was kissing me. I was telling him how in love I am with him. It was so amazing. I like being asleep. Funny thing is I woke up mid kiss. I could feel him.. What an awesome feeling.. Lots of love. It was just too short, and I barely got to interact with him. After about 2 months, before I went to sleep, I asked him if he could visit me soon. I also asked permission from God, in my prayers that night.
At about am, I had a very powerful visitation dream from my husband. I looked at him, and he looked back at me like he knew of my sudden realization. I went back into the dream and was suddenly face-to-face with him kissing!!! The feeling of love was overwhelming.
I woke up crying tears of joy. We DO go on!!! This happened to me one night ago. It was absolutely him and he almost had a glow to his complexion. I was sad when I woke up because I literally wanted to spend more time with him. When I went into my kitchen, I saw my bunny and wondered what the heck the bunny had done to his cage during the night. Very unusual!!!! A matter of a few hours later I was having lunch and my song for my loved one came over the restaurant! And tears started falling.
I lost the love of my life about a month ago and I believe he came to me in a dream. Ive never had a visitation dream that I remember before. I was at a beach amd he was just stood there smiling at me. It felt so real and still does to this day. I remember the dream so well.
I woke up asking if it was just my mind grieving for him or if it really was him. It was a comfort waking up from it and gives me confort to think about it. He has already given me the sence of touch for sure and delivered a messsage that hes with Jesus.
Its pretty amazing as hes the first person ive lost who was very close to me. I never asked him to show his presence, but did ask him never to leave me. Hi Jenny! The same thing happened to me. Night after night I dreamed, then it came to me! God in His mercy gave me proof and the knowledge that my First Love, still loved me after all this time. They felt familiar somehow, but never spoke. I immediately googled his name and up popped his Obituary!
He had passed away unexpectedly in June! I then looked up his brother and got in touch. My late father died a little over 6 months ago. Since his passing, I observed several signs around his home and I also had 4 different dreams about him. The first one appeared to be a warning because the event of his death triggered several issues regarding my inheritance, which other relatives are still trying to tamper and play with. The second was an assuring dream in one of his old homes where I was as tall as a small child and he simply held me close to his chest and he was significantly taller in his team.
The fourth strangely came at a night when the chandelier and the stretch cables over his sick bed in his room suddenly began shaking even though there was no earthquake and nothing was going on in the floor upstairs. That night I asked him to visit me in a dream if that was his spirit shaking those items on the ceiling and I did see him. He was in his death bed with the blanket over his face. A man who may have been his father or spiritual father was standing over his bed and when the blanket was lifted to reveal his face, my father woke up and began crying.
It was as though he did not want to die. What is strange is that I have no siblings, but a young man, who was his other son in this dream, and I took our turn after the elderly man to run up to his death bed. We were both crying too and trying to reach him as fast as possible. We knew we had to say Good Bye one last time before he closed his eyes and died again. What is strange is that my father died overseas in a 3rd world country where he lived, where I am right now, and I do sometimes suspect that he was murdered and the murder was committed in such a way to make it seem like it was a death that came to him naturally.
I do believe my uncle conspired with the maid to expedite his death after he began transferring some of his properties to me because he strangely died in less than a month since I flew back to the States. I need a some. He passsed away December 21st …just right before Christmas. The room again everything clean,white,shining. And then in the middle of this room was a stand with an orb like thing on top…was glowing of different colors and then appears a small person who explained to me what the device does.. Mostly purples and blues. He told me he would see me again. This was may 29, Like a 2 second pop kiss with his arm around me and in my left side I remember hearing the pop of our lips and wondering if the people I was with saw it or heard it…as soon as this happened I woke up.
This was today December,17th, But every year as it gets closer to his passing…. I see him more. I love it so much. I wish he could stay. I wish I could realize in my dream that I wanted to stay and keep myself there as long as possible. Sometimes this is…sometimes I just wake straight up. What does this mean…with the relationship we had we were the best best of friends. But we also had intimate moments for years. We just spoke on and off…. I feel like I never got to say goodbye MY way…never saw his face for the last time..
I just want to be in heaven with him. Thanks for this been wondering if my dreams are of my son Jonathan. I had a dream a bout an elder telling ne to my face that it was too late I was able to say it was never too late she told me she was stuck in my sisters old house I told her its never too late just pray as I had told her to go to the light she kept saying its too late My husband woke me up saying I was talking in my sleep this happened in dec and I still remember it!
Also I dont know where I just knew what to say to her was so suprising! I had the most beautiful dream. I think she took me to her, we were in a VERY bright place with beautiful music playing. My nan looked younger, she was standing tall and even walked about had been in a wheel chair for over 20 years. Her hair was coloured brown not grey. She was wearing the outfit she wore to my wedding 15 years ago and makeup.
She looked so happy. I totally believe I saw her for real and all her pain and illnesses are gone. Iam very worried about my dads sprit. Not that this matters, but he was my step dad and I was connected to him from the first day I meat him when I was My mom suddenly passed in I was 33, there was no warning she was not ill, She just passed awat. We never fought or argued. He had years of heart issues then lung cancer hit slow and then heart failuer. We knew time was short. Yet dad still passed in a sudden un expected way. The day before he died he told me he did not feel he had much longer.
I know he always said when his time comes he would be with my mom. The love and connection we are both missing eachother. He hugs me hard. I talk to him he responds to my questions. I ask him if he is happy where he is and both times he says he is not happy and he is not with my mom.
The tone in his voice seems as if he does not understand. In my dreams we both know he is gone and he cannot stay long to talk. Also he does not appear in the cloths we buried him. Both times he was wearing cloths I from his wardrobe. What does all this mean? She looked great.
Has anyone had this happen? In this dream she came up to me in the store and smiled and She open her arms up to hug me and I just fell into her and I remember saying they told me you were dead? My mom never said anything she just seemed so happy and kept smiling.. My male dog was hit by car on the 20th and he was hit close to home. My husband passed 17 months ago and came to me in a visitation dream, he was just sitting in his usual place on the sofa, dressed in his usual clothes, very vivid color.
He was gone but I talked to him, shook for an hour. I had never heard of this happening before. I ended up coming over all rushed and asked my friend what does she want? I had a dream tonight that I was out with my friends like usual and I received a phone call from my mother an she told me that my father has passed. I was out drinking I sat on some rocks by the beach talking on the phone with my mom than I just start crying so much… I was also drinking for some reason in my dream I was trying to cover up my feelings in front of my friends.
But once I was at the store buying Medicine I seen a man right I front of me who was my dad. I said Papi? He said yes mija. I saw him. Every little detail of him. It was crazy I was crying so much am he was talking to me telling me his dead now explaining to me how he was feeling but he seemed happy. But he gave me a hug and I felt good I felt happy he came to me.
Than I woke up at 4am crying and just felt really weird. The crazy part is that my dad is not dead. Please help Me understand. He has been gone for over a month,and I dream about him consecutively for 3days and stops,and then dream of him again consecutively. Today I dreamt about him, I hear his voice in one of the dreams, it was a continuing dream as I fell asleep again after waking up, I went back to thesame dream.
The last part of my dream, I was trying to call him on the phone but he didnot answer, and in my dream, I felt my head had goosebumps, and I immediately knew it was him, slowly as I woke up, I had goosebumps all over my body and imagined that he was hugging me. It was weird for me to have that feeling as I was covered in thick blanket and I did not feel even a bit of a cold, just the chills on my left side of the body, as I was sleeping on my right. Hi, I lost my father this month. Twelve days later, I had a dream of him walking past me looking healthy and about 15 years yoi ger.
I said dad? And he sakd I am fi e , I am doing good. Was it a visitation dream? My husband had been gone almost 9 months. I ask him every night to come to me but he never has. I am so sad and last. I have so many questions. I have had visitation dreams. First one was from my Son and the second more recent one was from my Dad.
Both times, I knew I was visiting them because even in my sleep I knew I was sleeping and I knew they came to talk to me. I remembered every detail in the morning, seen their faces, how happy they are. Postpartum dreaming might be especially intense because of something called the REM rebound effect, says Tore Nielsen, Ph. When you get only short bouts of it say, because of a crying baby , your need for this type of sleep builds up so that during your next stretch of sleep, you may actually have more REM sleep and, therefore, more intense and vivid dreams.
Dreams: Why do we dream?
In brain-imaging studies, the part of the brain that lights up when new parents are having these intrusive thoughts is the part of the brain that deals with vigilance and protectiveness, not violence. Though her child is 12 now, she still shuddered thinking about it. My friend shared this story after I told her about the nightmares that haunted me. In fact, all of my wonderfully oversharing friends the same ones who happily swapped birth stories involving gory details of perineal tearing and postbirth constipation neglected to mention anything about this extremely common and destabilizing symptom.
My nightmares, according to Davis, were likely an evolutionary adaptation. They are actually part of a cavewoman-era system designed to help me keep my baby safe, not a sign that anything was wrong with her—or me. During prehistoric times, this would lead to safer babies, but today it can lead to stressed-out parents.
Nightmares can sometimes be a symptom of a bigger issue, including postpartum anxiety, depression, or even PTSD from a traumatic birth event which happens to about 9 percent of women. But in most cases, including my own, they occur on their own, without any other symptoms. The first step is to take the research on these bad dreams to heart. The second step is to talk to someone about your nightmares. After—and only after! In my case, the nightmares started tapering off when my daughter was about eight weeks old and disappeared entirely a few weeks later.
My first non-baby- related dream—a jumbled narrative about a baseball game and sharing cotton candy with Jude Law and my middle school math teacher—was a huge relief. I was so happy to wake up without clenching my jaw and holding back tears. The next morning, as I nursed my baby and inhaled her powdery sweet scent, I could remember just a few nonsensical wisps of the dream and, really, that was fine by me. If you're dealing with postpartum stress, sadness, or want to talk about the adjustment to parenthood, please call Postpartum Support International at , text them at , or visit postpartum.
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